Monday, December 30, 2024
Post #500 -- The Finale?
Tuesday, November 26, 2024
Is Thanksgiving Real
Wednesday, June 26, 2024
Escape Pods
Monday, January 15, 2024
A Candidate Guide, Circa 2024
Friday, December 15, 2023
It Isn't WOITH It
Wednesday, November 8, 2023
Sending Us Their Worst And Brightest
Friday, March 10, 2023
What's The Harm
Sunday, May 29, 2022
The Real Killers
Tuesday, January 12, 2021
No More F**** To Give About T****
That said, this year I'm going to join the crowd, and publicize my own resolution. It's very simple: I'm not going to remain silent or try to change / avoid the subject the next time I hear anyone, speaking to me in person or in a group, tries to defend the worst, narcissistic, racist, xenophobic, homophobic, misogynistic, grifting, criminal, fascist president in U.S. history, Donald T****.
In retrospect, it's a shame I put so much effort into not confronting people on that topic before now. It seemed like such a waste of time and energy, trying to use truth and facts to explain something to the unwilling and unknowing. Changing the subject was a more rational approach than trying to change a mind warped by far right-wing media platforms, which supported / support T**** and the republican party (small caps on purpose) at all costs.
It was also a function of my professional life, to try to maintain neutrality. I have clients from all walks of life, although they are overwhelmingly white Iowans. It sort of reminds me of the famous Michael Jordan quote from a simpler time, when he was asked why he didn't use his platform for social change. "Republicans buy shoes, too," was his reply.
During the Black Lives Matter protests of last summer, it started to dawn on me that silence wasn't the correct option. That's the 'white privilege' way of doing things. Silence can be taken as complicity.
So coming into this year, I decided I wasn't going down that path anymore. After last week's crazed insurrection movement that killed people at the U.S. Capitol on 1/6/2021, I have extra motivation to not be silent when others are saying and doing ignorant, deranged things. Put less politely, I don't have anymore fucks to give about those people.
I'm not going out on a limb by putting this in writing on my little unknown blog. But if anyone reads it and disagrees, or anyone is offended by my verbal pushback someday, I'm ready to move on without them as clients or friends.
Monday, October 12, 2020
In Defense Of Mechanisms
A few months ago I made a blog entry about an Intro to Psychology class I took as a freshman in college, and how much of it I still remembered. A good deal of what was taught in that class came from the research and writings of the most well-known psychological thinker of all-time, Sigmund Freud.
One of those Freudian items was his seven psychological defense mechanisms. These are essentially ways the mind copes with itself, none of which are particularly appealing:
- Denial: Refusing to accept that something exists or happened, or perhaps simply altering the meaningfulness of an outcome to convince oneself it wasn't important.
- Intellectualization: Thinking about something logically or coldly and without emotion.
- Projection: Attributing a threatening aspect of oneself to someone else, like accusing another of being angry with you when you in fact are angry with them.
- Rationalization: Creating an acceptable but incorrect explanation of a situation.
- Reaction formation: Doing the opposite of what you would really like to do, such as going out of the way to be nice to someone you really disliked.
- Regression: Returning to an earlier or more childlike form of behavior.
- Repression: Keeping a thought, feeling, or memory of an experience out of consciousness, often with an emotionally difficult situation.
(It's noteworthy that Denial also happens to be the first stage of grief, as I mentioned in that prior post. It's the quickest and easiest defense mechanism to use, and also the worst one for our society.)
I've been thinking about these defense mechanisms a lot lately, probably because their usage is way up. Some of them have come to mind when observing the way people are dealing with the COVID-19 pandemic. Others have been particularly applicable to politicians and political parties in this election year. I'm not kidding when I say the current president will occasionally use all of these defense mechanisms in a single reply to a basic question. (The possible exception is Intellectualization, because that implies logic is involved.)
The point of this all is, 1) I remember obscure things from this college class, and 2) recognizing these defense mechanisms -- not just unknowingly using them -- would enhance everyone's ability to cope with life.
Thursday, September 10, 2020
Blocked
Thursday, February 13, 2020
Caucus Of Death
You may think I'm talking about the current presidential administration. While those words definitely all fit that, I'm actually referring to another political item: The 2020 Iowa Caucuses.
This isn't going to be a review of what went wrong. [Technology.] Nor will it be a prediction about the future of Iowa's first-in-the-nation presidential election year event. [Terminal.] It's to clarify something the national media doesn't cover:
Most Iowans do not give a damn about preserving their first-in-the-nation caucus status.
The only folks who really ever cared were / are mainly political activists and wonks, who constitute a very small percentage of the population. I'll also throw in the hotel and restaurant industry and a few other small main street businesses, which enjoyed higher sales from all of the extra people roaming the state off and on for months.
Yay for the economic growth of a few, on a quadrennial basis.
So for anyone who thinks Iowans will be universally sad to see the caucuses abandoned, no worries! We're actually looking forward to having fewer political commercials bombard us on both traditional and digital media platforms. We're looking forward to having more elbow room at the Iowa State Fair. We're looking forward to the calm.
The Iowa caucuses have always been a slightly goofy anachronism in the privacy-challenged digital age. It may well be time for them to die.
In which case, not that many Iowans will be crying at the funeral.
Wednesday, January 29, 2020
A Candidate Guide, Circa 2020
It's time for my quadrennial assessment of the remaining candidates who are spending time in Iowa, this year limited to the Democratic Party since the Republican party is set on nominating the current ignorant, corrupt, and impeachable president. In alphabetical order:
Joe Biden -- The safest, most moderate pick for the Dems. A known commodity with the best chance of winning the electoral votes in the states that matter most. He would be an more formidable candidate if he was several years younger.
Pete Buttigieg -- His moderate temperament and views, along with his military service, make him interesting. A lack of political baggage is also a plus, but a lack of experience is a negative. It's very surprising that he's made it this far.
Amy Klobuchar -- Another moderate whose views are reasonable and nationally appealing, and she has a neighboring state, midwestern likability to her. However, that likability doesn't translate into passionate support for her candidacy.
Bernie Sanders -- He's been in this race before, so he knows the issues, has refined his message, and has the name recognition. Has popularity with younger voters given his populist message, but that probably hurts more than helps in a national election.
Tom Steyer -- The 'attack Trump' strategy has appeal with some, but everyone knows he's just in it for issue advocacy and name recognition, right?
Elizabeth Warren -- The most intellectually appealing candidate, with a detailed plan for almost everything. Her energy and experience also help, but she limits her chances by being too far left on a few issues, namely college debt and health care.
Andrew Yang -- Doesn't seem there's any chance he'd win with no experience, but everyone should listen to what he's saying about the future of the U.S. workforce and economy.
Not mentioned is Mike Bloomberg, who isn't campaigning in Iowa but who could have an impact on the actual nominee, assuming it isn't him.
Friday, May 10, 2019
Post #400
I wrote about several recurring annual topics, including the Berkshire Hathaway Annual Meeting (soon to be post #410), my advice to graduating seniors, RAGBRAI musings, and things for which I'm not thankful.
I wrote about how smart people have many advantages in the world, but are disadvantaged by a lack of numbers, and so many stupid people holding them back.
I wrote about new cities and regions of the country I visited, including attending the Rose Bowl.
I wrote about how great social media technology and platforms could be, if not for the all of the people who use social media for evil and not for good.
I wrote more about our country's slow, inexorable march toward decriminalization and legalization of marijuana, which can't come soon enough.
I wrote a few more times about financial issues, and starting my own firm.
I wrote a handful of times about great songs and songwriters, a dying breed with the exception of a few hip-hop and country artists, to which I rarely listen.
Nearly 100 entries apart, I wrote about my observations at the funerals of my father and mother.
I wrote about how religion separates people (and in many cases, harms people) at least as much as it brings people together.
I wrote about the dysfunction and hatred of this decade's politics and politicians, which is in many ways related to the last item.
I wrote about how today's baby boomer parents are ruining not only their kids' lives, but society in general, with their awful parenting.
I wrote a few items of self-reflection, on what happened in the past, and what I might do differently if I knew then what I know now.
400 posts.....bring on the next 100!
Sunday, December 30, 2018
2019
-The failure of Bitcoin, not as an idea, but as an investment.
BITCOIN'S SHARE PRICE WENT FROM OVER $15,000 TO UNDER $4,000. THESE DAYS, IT'S AN AFTERTHOUGHT.
-An NCAA scandal so large they will have to start allowing players a cut of revenues.
THERE WAS/IS A RATHER LARGE SCANDAL RELATED TO SHOE COMPANY REPS GETTING MONEY TO DIRECT AMATEUR BASKETBALL PLAYERS TO CERTAIN SCHOOLS. BUT SO FAR IT'S ONLY LED TO A FEW COACHES BEING FIRED.
-More destinations and ways to fly on Southwest Airlines.
WELL, THEY ADDED A DIRECT DES MOINES - PHOENIX FLIGHT.
-A widespread ability to charge devices without a cord (also asked for this for 2016).
NOPE.
-A new governor / lieutenant governor elected for Iowa.
IT LOOKED LIKE THIS WAS GOING TO HAPPEN, BUT IT TURNED OUT TO BE A SURPRISING DISAPPOINTMENT.
-Let's try this -- exponential growth in the cannabis industry to the extent all states will want a piece of it through taxation.
ALMOST READY TO SAY THIS HAPPENED. [I JUST COVERED THIS IN MY LAST POST.]
-Greater national and international awareness of CRISPR (genome editing) technology.
THERE HAVE BEEN MORE NATIONAL STORIES ABOUT THIS.
-Smaller entree portions served in restaurants, for a reduced price.
THE PORTIONS MAY HAVE GOTTEN LARGER.
-Fewer national weather disasters, but more understanding of climate change.
ANOTHER ITEM THAT MOVED FARTHER AWAY FROM HAPPENING, NOT CLOSER.
-The resignation or impeachment of a mentally unstable and unqualified president -- again, no names.
CARRYING THIS ONE OVER TO NEXT YEAR.
Now, for 2019 I'd like to see these things happen:
The resignation or impeachment of a mentally unstable and unqualified president -- again, no names.
The electric vehicle becoming America's fastest growing (by percentage) seller.
Alabama and Clemson and New England to have poor football seasons.
Some major medical breakthrough, perhaps a vaccine to eliminate a dread disease.
Consistent, moderate summer rain in central Iowa.
A priest actually arrested and charged and jailed for past sexual abuse.
More cities allowing app-based scooter rentals.
Another scandal that ruins another Fox TV personality.
U.S. restaurants that allow payment by app, OR that bring the credit card reader to your table.
Me traveling to one of the five continental states in which I've never set foot.
Tuesday, November 20, 2018
Ten Years Of Not Being Thankful
Tariffs.
Esports and professional gaming.
Toilet paper set to roll out underneath instead of over the top.
Political rallies.
The 2018 NFC Championship game.
Dust.
Individuals using social media to promote themselves.
Voter suppression.
Movies based on comic books / characters.
Wildfires.
Neighbors who don’t rake their leaves.
Autocrats.
Saturday, June 2, 2018
Dear Graduating Class of 2018
To the college graduates of 2018:
Are you paying attention?
Not to me, not to any words of wisdom you might get from thousands of different college commencement address speakers. Are you paying attention to what's going on in America? To what's going on in the world?
Paying attention to civilization is the most important thing you should be doing now. I know, it wasn't your strong suit the past several years. You did enough to get your degree, but listening to long, boring lectures doesn't lend itself to paying attention. For anyone.
If paying attention hasn't been your thing the past four (five? six?) years, it needs to be now. Bad stuff is happening. Stuff that has the potential to make your future miserable. I'm not just referring to your job future, but your future of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.
Through a mixture of inattentiveness, conniver-y, and outright lying, certain individuals have been given power that far exceeds their ethical and moral capacity to handle it. This has led to them placing other ethically- and morally- challenged people in powerful posts.
The not-so-surprising result is a government that isn't actually working for the people. It's only working for, well, let's just say your chances of success are currently for less dependent on whether you have a college degree and for more on whether you are a white, heterosexual, Christian male.
Are you paying attention now?
The way to fix our broken government is to know what's going on. The best way to know what's going on is to stay abreast of current events, and I don't mean by keeping up with your Instagram or Twitter feeds. That isn't nearly good enough.
Watch the news, nationally and locally, and preferably on more than one channel. Read a bunch of different papers, articles, and books. Talk to a lot of people, and not just to your friends, who probably already think the same way as you do, or they wouldn't be your friends.
Show a little bit of passion for having a government and political system that works the right way, under the rule of law -- after all, you're paying for it, even if you don't have a job. Then, when election day rolls around, vote.
Pay attention!
Oh, and congratulations.
Wednesday, March 7, 2018
The LOST Loss
Unfortunately, many times humans do not properly calculate the underlying risk, leading to bad decisions / behavior. I thought about this again this week, when the residents of my county were asked to vote in favor of voluntarily and regressively taxing themselves via a sales tax increase.
The local option sales tax (LOST) has been around for a while in Iowa, as a way for county localities to raise additional tax revenue by tacking on another 1% to the statewide sales tax. When it was first introduced around 15 years ago, the idea was to allow counties to use the money solely for school infrastructure improvements over a 10-years taxing period. As with most new tax ideas, I've hated it from the beginning.
Over several years, every county in Iowa passed a LOST, increasing the total sales tax from 5% to 6%. And as a result, we have the nicest school infrastructure in the United States. For real. I’ve been to most other states, and their school building suck compared to Iowa. (Of course, there’s absolutely no evidence that nicer bricks and mortar mean smarter kids, but that’s another story.)
But then something happened that was only predictable to those of us with common sense: The LOST never went away. In fact, after the school districts mismanaged their budgeted improvements to the tune of millions of dollars, the state decided to simply make the statewide sales tax 6%, and allow another, new LOST for counties to use as they wish.
97 Iowa counties have piled on to this regrettable legislation, leaving only two that have not voted for a new LOST that increased sales taxes from 6% to 7%. (Note: That isn't a 1% increase, that’s a 19% increase, a math computation the LOST supporters don’t want anyone to know about.) My county is one of the remaining two, and this week, after an affluent neighboring suburb passed a LOST a few months ago, my county decided to have another vote.
Which brings me back to behavioral economics. Why would anyone vote to tax themselves, especially with no explicit guarantee that local government would spend the money on non-essential services? Yet, it happens quite often – as I mentioned, it recently happened in 97 out of 99 other instances in Iowa. It’s usually backed with nothing more than a promise that the sales tax it would help to offset some other tax burden (this time it was property taxes) or that it would not be permanent (see above).
My answer is, it’s another matter of not properly calculating the risk. Many people don’t recognize the cumulative impact of a regressive tax. They think of it in terms of ‘just an extra penny on the dollar’ rather than a whopping 19% increase on every Average Joe that will probably cost hundreds of dollars a year, and many thousands of dollars over many years.
As in past LOST votes, I voted no, and I’m pleased to day this time it failed (barely). I’m not against paying for essential government services, but I’m totally against voting to tax myself for undisclosed services I may not need, to be administered by government bureaucrats that haven’t been truthful, and who aren’t good stewards to begin with.
In other words, I’m for properly assessing risk and behaving appropriately.
Friday, December 29, 2017
2018
Tuesday, September 12, 2017
Iowa Pride
For example, a picture that went viral (at least in Iowa) was of two men wearing Iowa State gear lifting a wheelchair-bound Iowa fan -- later identified as a relative of an Iowa player -- up some steps into the stadium. This is the kind of routine nice that you usually see in Iowa.
It got me to thinking that I've been spending too much time thinking about what's wrong with Iowa. Things like our politicians, our weather, our meth labs, and did I mention our politicians?
Anyway, there are plenty of good things about Iowa and its residents, including but not limited to.....
* Generally relentlessly friendly people
* Generally intelligent people
* Wide open spaces
* Low crime rate
* Low cost of living
.....and at the end of the day, it's better to focus on these things than on Iowa / Iowans' shortcomings.
But it's easier to spot and write about the shortcomings, so that's going to keep happening.