To the graduating class of 2021,
Was the year really so bad? For you and for your parents, yes, yes it was. Regardless of whether you were in high school or college, not being able to fully enjoy all of the curricular and extra curricular of that senior year had to suck.
On the other hand, your sacrifice, such as it was, allowed academic society to function during a pandemic in a way that didn't endanger more lives. You aren't getting a medal for that, and not many will remember how your senior year was less than it should have been because of it.
Which brings me to my main message -- get used to it. Meaning get used to not being praised, much less rewarded, for making sacrifices.
This is going to be a theme for most of your life. Your work bosses are going to take the praise you want, and give the grief you don't want. That's also going to suck, but like the pandemic, it also won't last.
Let me put it into a different perspective: The generations before you also had to make sacrifices that ruined their senior years. These included things like living through -- and being victims of -- race oppression, economic depression, and war. Imagine having to go overseas to dodge bullets instead of going to homecoming dances or kegger parties.
So, Buck Up, Class of 2021! You got the shaft, similar to the Class of 2020, but at least you got a graduation ceremony. And it doesn't give you permission to live in your parents' basement forever.